If both you and your groom are not religious and do not subscribe to any particular religion the thought of being wed in a church with a religious ceremony probably doesn’t sit well. Moreover, if you both come from different religious backgrounds you may choose not to acknowledge them both by having an interfaith ceremony. You may also wish to include your own vows, readings, or other creative elements which are not allowed in other religious ceremonies. It is for these reasons that more and more couples are opting to have secular ceremonies while still following tradition - saying “I do” surrounded by all of your friends and family in a beautiful setting followed by a fabulous reception!

Civil ceremonies are conducted by Officiants who are legally entitled to do so (that is, sign your marriage license). Before choosing your Wedding Officiant, you should be sure to ask them the following questions:

1. Is the Officiant available on our wedding date and will they travel to our location?
2. What fees does the Officiant charge?
3. How many weddings has the Officiant performed?
4. Ask for a ceremony itinerary including sample readings, passages, vows, etc.
5. Will there be a rehearsal?
6. How do you feel about the Officiant? Do you feel comfortable with them? Do you feel like you “connect”?

Here’s the basic rundown for a civil ceremony:

Processional – bride walks down the aisle
Officiant’s Welcome and Opening Remarks – welcome guests and read a passage or comment on the bride and groom
Presentation – father “gives bride away”
Charge to the Couple – explain that the couple has decided to join in marriage
Vows – couple exchanges vows
Ring Exchange – couple exchanges rings
Pronouncement of Marriage – announcing the couple as man and wife
Seal It With a Kiss
Officiant’s Closing Remarks
Recessional – bride and groom walk down the aisle together